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How come both women and men are still online in spite of their relationship?

This is a very serious question that I would like for someone who is involved in a relationship to answer for me. I asked this important question simply because if a man or a woman is involved in a relationship with each other, why are you online in the first place? It does not make any sense to me because if I was involved in a relationship with a God fearing woman, I would not have a desire to be online ever again. This would mean that I would have to relinquish all of my friends as well as all of my ties that I have with people worldwide. I know that women are very jealous; especially if a man is online all of the time. How come both men and women are still online is a question that I would like for everyone to ask themselves. Are you satisfied with your relationship? Are you still online looking for friends only rather than spending time with your significant other or spouse. What is important? I know that each time I am online; I see that there are a whole lot of women who are still online and are maintaining a relationship with their boyfriends or spouses.

Next, let’s have a look at the reason why people still remain online in spite of their relationships. For example, there are billions of face book users right now, and the majority of them are women. Women make up over 51% of the United States population and 55% of the world population at this time. The reason why women and men remain online is to maintain their friendships with their personal friends. However, there are times when these relationships fail or crumble. This is simply because of secrecy as well as individuals who refuse to live by the truth. 2nd Corinthians 13:8 says for we cannot do anything against the truth, but only for the truth. This means that the truth must shine just like the lights that are inside of the house or sky. God watches us all of the time. It is very important that men and women still keep it 100% because if not, then you will get left inside of your own dust.

Further, I do not understand why people are still online anyway; even though they are involved in a relationship. I would like to have this as a topic of discussion because there are too many people online who are dishonest and they are still involved in relationships. What I do not understand is why these individuals are online in the first place. Are they really cheating on their spouses or significant others? This is a question that all couples need to answer while they are by themselves. According to Dr. Phillip McGraw, he indicates that if a man or a woman is online without the other knowing, this is called cheating.

Online cheating happens each and every single day. Cyber cheating occurs on a daily basis. For instance, there are people who have a problem dealing with online pornography. There are billions of people who have an addiction to the internet and they do not even know it. This is very serious!! This issue as well as other issues that pertain to the internet needs to be addressed just like a person who is an alcoholic or a drug addict.
The problem here that I am addressing at this time is how come couples who are together and are still online. This is a very serious problem. Most couples might not think that a problem exists, but it does exist!! A lot of people might think that I am insecure in this case.
It is that if I was involved in a loving relationship with a woman, I would not have a desire to be online. This is what really messed up my relationship up in the first place. I will be the first to admit that I am addicted to the internet, porn, women, and all of my online friends. I also will be the first to admit that I have been clean and sober for almost 23 years. I do not have a desire to drink beer and smoke marijuana. I have asked God to remove the desire from me to crave these two substances, and He did just that. When it comes to maintaining a relationship, it is best that we avoid the use of the internet, just to appease the other sex. I have asked God to remove the desire from me to observe porn on the internet and He did just that.

I know that I am still a work in progress, but I am still a sinner. I am a single man right now, and I am walking with God right now. I know that Satan is busy controlling the earth as well as deceiving the nations. Revelations 20:8-11 indicates that Satan will be released from his prison, will go out and deceive the nations; from all four corners of the earth. Afterwards, he and the false prophets will be casted inside of the lake of fire and tormented day and night forever. This is very serious because we are living in some very dangerous times. The earth is changing and we need to get our lives straight right now. I wanted ask this question because there are millions of people who are involved in relationships and still maintaining their online friends?

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