WHAT IS LIFE?

What is life?

What is life? Let's look at what we actually think what life really mean to us? Life is not only the air that we breathe. It is our entire existence itself. It consists of air, hearing, sight, touch, smell and taste. It also consists of the things that we are learning from the environment that we choose to live. What is life you are asking? Life is the essence that has been provided from our Creator. God is our creator and the person that gives us life. Life itself comes from our mother and father. It also comes from God and Jesus Christ themselves. In the planning stages, it is man and woman themselves to determine when a life will come into existence. This process is called procreation. Procreation is a process and planning of an existing embryo itself. God told Adam and Eve to bring life into existence and multiply. This means that men and women to whom they choose as a mate are supposed to decide when to have children. This is a very meticulous process. 

Men and women are making foolish choices when it comes to this process. Trying to decide on whom to have as a mate to become a potential parent is not very easy. It requires a great deal of thinking and planning. In our economic crisis today, many have decided not to become parents. I cannot blame you for not becoming a parent. I have decided to wait myself because things are extremely difficult right now. This is because it costs too much to take care of a house as well as children themselves. Therefore, some men and women who have children are having it really hard themselves. This is because they are in an economic strain themselves. This means that they do not have time to take care of their own households as well as themselves. These people will have to work additional jobs just to make ends meet. This also means that they do not have time to spend with God as well. There are also times when communication between men and women tend to break down. 

This means that men and women are not on the same page when it comes to dealing with finances as well as taking care of their homes. When it comes to dealing with children, most are placing their own children into daycare or they are relying on other relatives and friends to take care of their own children. This also causes a very great deal of stress on both men and women. In most cases, it is the women who are doing most of the work. It is the women themselves who are taking care of the home as well as the finances themselves.

 This is because men are reluctant to take care of their own responsibilities as fathers of their own children. It is men who are giving their own children's mothers very serious problems and grief. What is life you are asking again? It is really what you make of it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!! Life is not only the existence that one must learn to appreciate; it is also the tasks that one must learn to complete in a very positive manner. 

Learning how to appreciate what God has given you, is very important. I know for myself that I will make a very good father, because I understand what it is really like to struggle and survive in a forever changing environment. This is also because I had to raise my siblings as a child myself as well as my niece and nephews when their parents had excessive things to do. I understand a plight and daily task that pertains to life itself. This means that I understand and share your point of view. I am speaking to all of the women of the world who are raising their own children by themselves as well as those who have decided not to have children based on economic situations and conditions. 

Men will have to learn how to communicate better with their own spouses and significant others in order to establish a basis of understanding. 

Maybe this will never be established because of the so called ego problem that some of them possess. Some men tend to become extremely selfish in their own ways, but it is up to women who are involved in a relationship with them to understand what are egos compared to selfishness. Communication is a two way street. It is not one sided like some people tend to make it out to be. Communication and life goes hand in hand. Communication and life are both unique and intricate. This means that it is the language that we speak and the message that we convey that sends a message to another person. It is how this message is interpreted.

 Will this message be positive or negative? It is up to us on how this message is translated. How things are translated vary according to individual. It is variable, but it is also based on how this message is sent. Learning how to understand another person takes practice and experience. Some men and women do not know how to understand each other because they do not know to understand themselves as people. When you do not know how to understand yourself, this is a very serious problem. God can restore you and not man himself. God can use people in a positive way